Calm down toolkit - breathing exercises and coping strategies
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When things feel too much, try one of these.
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It is okay to feel overwhelmed. Tap a strategy below to help you feel calmer. Take your time.
Breathing
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Deep breathing
Slow breathing tells your body it is safe. Try this for a few minutes.
Breathe in
Press start to begin
Start
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Box breathing
Breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4. Repeat.
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Breathe IN slowly for 4 counts
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HOLD your breath for 4 counts
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Breathe OUT slowly for 4 counts
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HOLD for 4 counts, then repeat
Grounding
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5-4-3-2-1
Look around you and notice things using your senses to feel grounded.
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Name 5 things you can SEE
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Name 4 things you can TOUCH
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Name 3 things you can HEAR
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Name 2 things you can SMELL
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Name 1 thing you can TASTE
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Feel your feet
Notice your body and where you are to feel more settled.
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Press both feet flat on the floor
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Feel the floor under your feet
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Notice your back against the chair
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Take a slow breath and look around
Movement and distraction
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Squeeze and release
Tensing and releasing your muscles helps let go of stress.
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Squeeze your hands into fists tight
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Hold for 5 seconds
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Let go and feel them relax
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Try with your shoulders and toes too
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Draw your feelings
Get a piece of paper and draw or scribble how you feel right now.
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Grab some paper and something to draw with
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Draw shapes, scribbles, or anything you like
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Use colours that match how you feel
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There is no right or wrong - just draw
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Move your body
Moving helps shake off big feelings when they feel stuck inside.
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Stand up and shake your hands
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Roll your shoulders backwards slowly
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Take 10 slow steps around the room
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Come back and take a big breath
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Listen to calm music
Put on a favourite calming song and just listen without doing anything else.
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Put on a calm song you like
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Close your eyes if that feels okay
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Just listen and breathe slowly
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Notice how you feel when the song ends